Jan 12, - Sex over 60 – what no one will tell you healthy, but with a few more years inevitably come a few more things to think about. An older man may also find it takes him longer to reach climax than when he was younger, and. According to Lisa, single men over 60 want women who are in touch with their feminine side. Do Older Men Really Only Want to Date Younger Women? .. As a woman who has been married for 38 years, I have asked myself & my husband.